Ever had a flawless Christmas?

I don't think I have. Not as an adult, anyways. It's always something.

Since Adrian's been home, I've put on a bit of weight. I've gone from healthfully voluptuous to voluptuous with a vengeance (read: chubby). This hasn't kept Adrian from buying me clothes.

Last night after spending all day cooking (a great big breakfast in the morning, fudge, deviled eggs, cheese ball, green chili cresent roll appetizers, chocolate chip cookies, 2 pumpkin pies, and Christmas wassal, if you must know) I decided that a nice Christmas Eve shower would add to my holiday enjoyment. I took my chubby self upstairs and had a nice, refreshing shower and lubed up with some delightfully festive Suave Holiday lotion afterward.

When I stepped out into the bedroom to put on some clean clothes, I found a beautiful set of holiday PJs laid out on the bed, all red and silky and inviting. What a thoughtful, perfect gift.

I pulled on the bottoms and buttoned up the top and padded down the stairs all fresh and cheerful. It's a Wonderful Life was just starting, and I snuggled up on the couch with my husband. My left leg felt funny.

Breezy.

My pajama bottoms had developed ventilation slits from just above my knee almost up to my hip bone. My heart sunk as I looked at the shiny, frayed fabric. I showed Adrian, and the look on his face was pure disappointment. Being female, I assumed that he was disappointed with ME. He got up abruptly and headed out to the garage.

"Where are you going?" I asked, timidly. His gruff reply was, "I've got to go do something." As he rushed out the door, I asked, "Aren't you going to watch the movie?" "I've got to do something," he repeated angrily.

In tears, I raced up the stairs and crawled into bed. I fingered the rip in my holiday jammies, and noticed that my right leg felt breezy, too.

Another rip.

I took them off and put them in the wastebasket, then crawled back in to bed to cry some more, feeling fat, unloved, and all around bad. About that time I heard my husband's heavy footsteps coming up the stairs. He entered the bedroom with a confused look on his face.

He couldn't understand why I was upset. Apparently, the "thing he had to do" was find the sewing kit tucked away with some of his gear in the garage, and the anger I perceived wasn't anger, but focus as he tried to remember where he last saw the kit. He pulled the ripped bottoms out of the trashcan and tenderly talked me into coming downstairs with him.

He turned my PJ bottoms inside out and carefully stitched them up with loving determination. As I sat there I fretted over why the pants had torn. I've put on weight, but the jammies weren't tight. Not in the least. They were plenty loose in the legs, and they have an elastic waist. I felt so rotten about it.

He finished up his sewing, and held the pants up to inspect his handiwork. He gave the waistband a gentle tug and...

Rip!

The CROTCH of the pajama bottoms ripped before our very eyes. As sad as I was to see those beautiful pants deteriorate even more, I cannot express the relief I felt when I discovered that inferior workmanship, not my fat ass, had been the catalyst for their yuletide demise. I felt vindicated, despite never being formally accused. It was a wonderful, if disappointing, moment.

The PJ top, despite being a snugger (although not quite tight) fit, is in perfect condition, but I don't know if those damned jolly pants are salvageable. Crotchless pajamas don't exactly say "family holiday enjoyment."

I did, however, redeem myself later in the night when we discovered that Santa's Hot Wheels Gorilla Attack play set required 4 ( !! ) D batteries that we had not anticipated needing and I pulled a brand new pack of 4 D batteries out of my emergency kit that I had so carefully assembled long ago. (Hey, MIA batteries on Christmas Eve night counts as an emergency.)

It seems that the holiday pants won the battle, but not the war! Muahahahahahahahhaa.

Comments
on Dec 26, 2005
Great story! Great hubby too! Sure am glad to know that the emergency kit was ready for action! (As you said, on Christmas Eve, MIA batteries are an enermgency or maybe even THE Christmas Eve emergency!)

To be truthful, I too, have put on a little weight over the last year, I think it's in our jeans...err...genes!
on Dec 26, 2005
Hurray for spare batteries!! and thank goodness for ( seriously) for shoddy workmanship in the pajama bottoms!

If it hadn't been for the shoddy workmanship, you and hubby wouldn't have had that experience together, learning
together, experiencing understanding of each other, I think it was a good thing it happened.

Sorry though for the hurt feelings, why do us women beat ourselves up so much over our weight?? it never ends
it seems......it's like that commerical with the guy asking another guy if he looks fat in his jeans, ya know?
on Dec 26, 2005
p.s. just an after thought here, IMHO there are no flawless Christmas celebrations, that to me is a Norman Rockwell
picture, lovely to look at, just not real.
on Dec 26, 2005
This is the best Christmas story ever! Your wit astounds me. Thanks for sharing your holiday memories. I loved the Christmas card! Have a blessed New Year!
on Dec 26, 2005
Christmas should be flawless for every kid, but it should NEVER be flawless for adults... where's the fun in that? ;~D

Thanks for yet another great Texas Wahine Experience!! ;~D
on Dec 26, 2005
Sorry about the badly made jammies...but wow...what a sweet thing for your husband to have done...how many guys would take out a sewing kit and try to mend their wife's clothing? Not too many I bet...


Hope you and your family had a beautiful Christmas nevertheless.
on Dec 26, 2005
Jeremy:
Great story! Great hubby too!


Thanks!

Sure am glad to know that the emergency kit was ready for action! (As you said, on Christmas Eve, MIA batteries are an enermgency or maybe even THE Christmas Eve emergency!)


Haha. I tend to scavenge from it from time to time, so I have to update it every so often! I was sure glad to see those batteries in there! Unfortunately, we needed about 8 AAAs that we didn't have!

To be truthful, I too, have put on a little weight over the last year, I think it's in our jeans...err...genes!


Ain't that the truth! For some reason, when I am happy and things are going well, I start putting on weight. I think I'm going to join a gym after payday!

Little Whip:
What a darling of a husband you have, stitching up your jammy-pants like that!


Absolutely! It was precious of him.

I'm glad there was some of everything left, at least, even a small slice of cheesecake, but I feel bad that he ate Christmas dinner all alone.


Wow. How sad, for all of you. I hate when things like that happen...it's the worst feeling. Very sweet of you and Simon, though, to plan such a special evening for him. You two are angels (albeit slightly evil ones! Haha).

Trudy:
Hurray for spare batteries!! and thank goodness for ( seriously) for shoddy workmanship in the pajama bottoms


Yep. Hehe. I was disappointed to not get to wear them on Christmas morning, but I'm scared to go near them now. They might tear if I look at them wrong.

If it hadn't been for the shoddy workmanship, you and hubby wouldn't have had that experience together, learning
together, experiencing understanding of each other, I think it was a good thing it happened.


Haha. I don't know if it was *good*, but I do agree that sometimes those quirky, unwanted things that happen make for the best memories. It's all in how you handle them!

Sorry though for the hurt feelings, why do us women beat ourselves up so much over our weight?? it never ends
it seems......it's like that commerical with the guy asking another guy if he looks fat in his jeans, ya know?


Hahahhahahaa. Men don't seem to worry about things like that. Obesity and being overweight runs in my family, and I really like to keep on guard so as not to let myself get too heavy. I'm going to have work harder at it, it seems.

just an after thought here, IMHO there are no flawless Christmas celebrations, that to me is a Norman Rockwell
picture, lovely to look at, just not real.


I think you're right. And when things do go flawlessly, somehow it's devoid of the magic that makes family experiences so memorable.

Tenille:
This is the best Christmas story ever! Your wit astounds me. Thanks for sharing your holiday memories. I loved the Christmas card! Have a blessed New Year!


Aww, thank you. I'm glad you liked the card, too. Happy New Year to you, too. Love you.

ParaTed:
Christmas should be flawless for every kid, but it should NEVER be flawless for adults... where's the fun in that?


So VERY true! One of my favorite memories is of camping out at lake Altus in OK, when Xavier was 3 (or 4, maybe?) and Orian was an infant. We had a HUGE storm and hurricane force winds, and we had to abandon our tent and find a seedy hotel. It was bizarre, but oh so memorable and special. We laughed a lot.

Thanks for yet another great Texas Wahine Experience!!


Glad you enjoyed it!

InBloom:
Sorry about the badly made jammies...but wow...what a sweet thing for your husband to have done...how many guys would take out a sewing kit and try to mend their wife's clothing? Not too many I bet...


I bet you're right! He really is a doll. It was sweet watching a big bad Soldier carefully sewing a pair of silky red pajama bottoms!

Hope you and your family had a beautiful Christmas nevertheless.


We sure did. It was wonderful. I've got tons of adorable photos to share, but I'm having trouble getting them to upload.

Hope Christmas was wonderful for you and yours, InBloom!
on Dec 27, 2005
how many guys would take out a sewing kit and try to mend their wife's clothing? Not too many I bet...


A surprising number of soldiers and vets. If you're a soldier, there just always seems to come a time where you've got to sew something. Buttons on class A's, a patch that has to be there in a hurry for an inspection, even just a rip in tent canvas or a humvee door.

Real men know how to handle a needle. A real husband knows how to handle a needle, and is willing to do it for their wife. Good on ya, Adrian!
on Dec 27, 2005
SPC:
A surprising number of soldiers and vets. If you're a soldier, there just always seems to come a time where you've got to sew something. Buttons on class A's, a patch that has to be there in a hurry for an inspection, even just a rip in tent canvas or a humvee door.


I think you're right about that. He learned how to stitch things up in the Army.

Real men know how to handle a needle. A real husband knows how to handle a needle, and is willing to do it for their wife. Good on ya, Adrian!


So true! He's such a sweetie.
on Dec 27, 2005
I knew it was the PJ's workmanship the minute I read this story! I've had materials like that before and nothing ever, ever saves them from ripping. It's the type with no give in them, they're pretty to look at but they will go to shreds. I'm glad your hubby was so handy with the needle kit - how sweet! And yea we always think the worst of ourselves Tex, that's women for you. I'm glad it all ended great though.
on Dec 27, 2005
And Whip, so horrible that mix up! I'm glad you guys were still able to give him dinner though.
on Dec 27, 2005
ForeverSerenity:
I knew it was the PJ's workmanship the minute I read this story! I've had materials like that before and nothing ever, ever saves them from ripping. It's the type with no give in them, they're pretty to look at but they will go to shreds.


That makes me feel better! I still have the top, which seems to hold up better, and it looks pretty cute pants-less!

I'm glad your hubby was so handy with the needle kit - how sweet!


Hehe. It's no wonder I'm so enamored with him!

And yea we always think the worst of ourselves Tex, that's women for you. I'm glad it all ended great though.


That's the truth! I get so disgusted with it sometimes, it's really a sore spot for me. But you're right...it all ended just fine. Kind of a cute, quirky memory.