I have been home for a few months now but it still borders on surreal. I keep expecting to wake up in a dark metal container so far away from everything I know. A different world...

But instead I wake up in a nice large bed, in beautiful Hawaii, next to my even more beautiful wife. Sometimes, I will sit and look at her and draw her essence into me, a sort of secret ritual I would never tell her about for fear that she would think I'm silly. She is so much to me, she affects every facet of my life, but still I need her more. I wish she could know the depths of my love and care for her. I try and tell her but words seem so insignificant, gestures seem so insignificant. I am strong for her, I am everything for her. Without her I would be an empty shell. Still, I tried to deny at one time, to push her away, but she stayed and it makes me love her even more. I admire her so much. I try and woo her still and make her my whole world. She is my ideal, beautiful and intelligent, feminine but strong, extremely attractive but modest. Her sexuality, while demure at times, drives me wild time after time. She is like a drug, I can't get enough of her. I wish I were a poet so that I could write something befitting of her, worthy of her, but I'm not. I instead try and tell her how much I love her in my own inadequate terms. I love her body, her full curves, her smooth porcelain skin, her more than ample breasts. I could spend all night making love her, and I have on several occasions, and still ache for her. I would pour honeyed words into her ear all day just for a chance to make love with her. She is always on mind, no matter how hectic things get or how stressed I am. Even when I come home from a long and trying day at work, seeing her always lifts my spirit. I still try and impress her everyday. I love her laugh and sense of humor, I love spending time with her and hearing what she thinks about this and that. She is a great match for me, and I don't think there is anyone better suited to me in the whole world.

I love you, Brandie.... always and forever.

Comments
on Jul 03, 2005

Alright you fucker, you made me cry.  Happy now?! 

Seriously...I'm glad.  V. glad.

 

on Jul 03, 2005
Wow, guess which letter I'm gonna plagerise for use at a later date. Now all I need is a intelligent girl with porcelain skin and more that ample breasts.....
on Jul 03, 2005
Well, I just have to comment on this. Adrian wrote this (on my blog, hehe, the sneaky guy) while I was taking a nap earlier, and left it for me to find.

I'm certainly not deserving of all this praise, but it was such a beautiful surprise, and very uplifting. I feel so lucky to have such a sweet and loving guy, and I really don't know what to say or do to thank him for this.

*sigh*
on Jul 03, 2005
Wow!
Brandie is a very lucky woman to have such a man that truly adores her, Loves her and puts her on the preverbial "pedestal." I hope she really knows how blessed she is to be loved in this way.
So where does a woman find a man like that, one who is not afraid to give all of himself? That is the question!
Recently divorced...and still a believer in "one true love."
on Jul 03, 2005
*sigh* so beautiful...
on Jul 04, 2005
Haha...I doubt Adrian's going to reply to this article (although he keeps asking me about comments, hehe), so I will do it...

dharma:
Alright you fucker, you made me cry. Happy now?


I came close...he doesn't think he's a good writer, but I really think he has a way with words. This was very powerful, to me, anyways.

Seriously...I'm glad. V. glad.


(BTW, I shared your comment with him, and he was happy that you found it touching)

Thanks.

Toblerone:
Wow, guess which letter I'm gonna plagerise for use at a later date. Now all I need is a intelligent girl with porcelain skin and more that ample breasts.....


Hahahahahhaa...nice...you can always tweak the details, hahaha. He really did a beautiful job, didn't he? I'm just so awed. It was very sweet of him.

greeneyedlady:

(haha, apparently Adrian doesn't know to click the "registered users only" tab, but so long as this doesn't attract any nasties, it should be fine)

Wow!Brandie is a very lucky woman to have such a man that truly adores her, Loves her and puts her on the preverbial "pedestal." I hope she really knows how blessed she is to be loved in this way.


Yes, I am very lucky. We've had some struggles recently that I won't go in to detail about here, but this article demonstrates some of the reasons why I stayed.

I also feel compelled to note that marriage is not entirely comprised of all those sweet, mushy feelings and that compassion, dedication, sacrifice, and commitment play a big part. Just as Adrian treats me well, I direct my energy and effort into doing the same for him. It's a partnership, with both he and I working together to have a happy home.

So where does a woman find a man like that, one who is not afraid to give all of himself? That is the question!Recently divorced...and still a believer in "one true love."


I don't know that I believe in one true love, but I do believe in love. My sympathy goes out to you in the dissolution of your marriage, but I do hope that your experience will serve to make you stronger and more confident, and I hope that you find someone who makes you feel lucky!

islandgurl:
*sigh* so beautiful...


Isn't it, though? What a precious man...
on Jul 04, 2005
Alright, so I was about ready to cry when I read the article...and then I read your comments and when you said that he snuck on JU and posted while you were sleeping that just pushed me over the edge!! What a great guy!!

(as a recap) Interest + Effort...THAT'S what women want Looks like your man nailed it this time!!
on Jul 04, 2005
aaaah mush!
on Jul 05, 2005
Ok know he has made me cry. I love reading how much you two love each other!
on Jul 05, 2005
This is what I would call an, "Awwwwwww..." moment.

~Zoo
on Jul 05, 2005
Chrissy:
Alright, so I was about ready to cry when I read the article...and then I read your comments and when you said that he snuck on JU and posted while you were sleeping that just pushed me over the edge!! What a great guy!!


He really is such a sweetie. I know that it doesn't come naturally to some guys...I'm very lucky!

(as a recap) Interest + Effort...THAT'S what women want Looks like your man nailed it this time!!


Totally!

Mason:
aaaah mush!


Hehe...

Mom:
Ok know he has made me cry. I love reading how much you two love each other!


Thanks...hahaa...I'll tell him it made you cry...he might like that...muahahahaa...(kidding)

Zoo:
This is what I would call an, "Awwwwwww..." moment.


Definitely. I think I'm going to print it out so that I can keep it with me.
on Jul 05, 2005
d'oh! Screwy JU.
on Jul 07, 2005
sarey,

And here I sat, not knowing what to do with my "trolling" points for the day (not that they'll do any good for an anonymous user, but it'll make me feel better all the same).

Back to topic...wonderful piece, Adrian! Hope things are going well for you guys!
on Jul 07, 2005
Thanks for the support, Gideon. I really appreciate that.

Back to topic...wonderful piece, Adrian! Hope things are going well for you guys!


Thanks. I'll let him know that you enjoyed it. Things get better everyday. In a weird way, I think all our troubles have brought us closer. Thanks again.

Sarey: Buh-bye. Problem solved.