Mothers are often viewed as matronly and kind of asexual. The new excitement about MILFs notwithstanding, it seems like men have often taken a hands-off approach to pregnant women.
Some men are turned off by the possibility that they may "hurt the baby" (what with their massive, cervix destroying penises, haha) while others somehow imagine that the baby "knows" and can see daddy's willy aiming at him during sexual activities. Other men want to view mothers-to-be as sacred and pure and untouchable and some men complain that the weight gain and body changes of pregnancy turn them off (I remember once watching a stand-up routine with a man who claimed he had to look at porn before sex during his wife's pregnancy so he would "know what it's supposed to look like").
Other men I have known and heard from have seemed turned on by the curvy changes of pregnancy and the ultimate female vibe that emanates from a healthy pregnant woman. In fact, there's even pregnancy porn out there. (Weird to me, but hey, lots of stuff is weird to me.)
My question is this:
Men...do you find a pregnant woman (in general, but also your mate specifically if you have one) sexy and sensual and alluring? Do the curves and vibrancy of a pregnant woman drive you crazy? Or does the rounded body of a pregnant woman turn you off?
Women...do you feel sexy when you are pregnant? And I'm not just talking about hormones and sex drive. Does your shape, your vitality and the affirmation of your womanhood make you feel like a beautiful, desirable partner, or do you feel fat and dumpy and undesirable?
I love pregnancy because in addition to a bountiful bosom, it's finally ok to have a tummy. I always loved my rounded figure. Even with my last pregnancy when I was really heavy, I felt good about my body.
Is a pregnant woman a sexy M-to-be-ILF or is she a turn off?