-- Homer Simspson
Published on December 20, 2007 By Texas Wahine In Blogging
Ok, I'm not a "super lady"...that was a Simpsons quote. If you haven't seen their 10th wedding anniversary episode, you should do that right away. After you finish reading this, of course.

Yesterday marked 10 years since the day Adrian and I married. So much has changed since then, but we still love each other still want to be married (to each other, haha) so I guess our first decade together is worth celebrating.

Adrian took the boys to school and woke me by sticking a dozen roses in my face. I was bleary from sleep and grabbed them by the thorns. These roses had the sharpest thorns I've ever touched. My finger still hurts. But they are beautiful. I'm a lucky girl. He also stuffed me full of my favorite chocolate and gave me an orchid lei as is customary in this part of the world, haha.

Our day was pretty boring. The kids were in school. Isabella is obsessed with me and wanted to be my Siamese twin all day. I guess that's not the appropriate term. Conjoined twin. She wanted to crawl back inside. Or be sewn to me or something. I played online as much as I could with my fire hazard laptop cord ("Is it supposed to make crackling sounds?" "NOOOO! It's shooting sparks! Unplug it! Unplug it!") and Adrian was exercising his fingers with Call of Duty 4 (he had to show his ID to buy it...haha...wouldn't want him being exposed to violence and war themes) while catching up on laundry (good husband!). Orian had Cub Scouts and the day seemed pretty non-eventful.

Adrian decided we needed to do *something* for our anniversary, so we all got dressed and had dinner at Outback. You know, the place that serves the food that people like Maso and Toblerone eat every day. You guys eat fried onions and steak at every meal, right? Haha.

It turned out to be a really fabulous evening. I started out with the Wallaby Darned drink (much later I realized it was a pun, d'oh!). It was champagne, vodka, and peach schnapps, with some sort of peach frozen stuff. It was yummy. Especially with the extra shot added.

What's a Wallaby? I'm going to google that after I post this.

I ordered the most expensive thing on the menu. I felt the need to set a precedent for high maintenance for the next 10 years. Haha. I had a wonderful salad with wasabi vinaigrette dressing (and we had an overcooked Blooming Onion...or is it an Awesome Blossom? Whichever one Outback serves). Are you enjoying reading in detail what I ate for supper? That's not the least bit boring, is it? Oh, I had another Wallaby Darned. My dinner was a rare 7 oz filet mignon and 2 huge crab legs. The steak was good but the crab legs were unbelievably delicious. I mentioned that to Adrian about 7 times. I also had sauteed mushrooms, as I am often known to do. Everyone else ate stuff. I don't know what. I was too busy with my crab legs and Wallaby Darned. Hehe.

We had a lot of laughs and conversation and I was really glad we brought the kids, even if the 10th anniversary is supposed to be an intimate, elegant thing (sorry, Simpsons again). The boys got huge sundaes, which is apparently something Aussies like to eat for dessert.

The boys were wearing their Christmas card shirts and Isabella was fashionable as usual, so we kept getting asked if we had just come from getting pictures taken. Next time I'm going in flip flops and sweatpants.

Documentation of our evening out:

Isabella and her daddy getting ready:



That delicious Wallaby:



Izzy showing off her KISS tongue:



Orian dropped some ice cream...then he ate it:



Xavier and Isabella playing:



Xavier, doing what he does best:



Isabella making her famous stinky face:



The old married couple (isn't my husband HOT?!?!):



Outback parking lot shot:


Comments
on Dec 20, 2007
First of all, congratulations to you and Adrian. I hope the next ten years will mean you get to see more of your husband than you have in the last ten. Those boys and the beautiful little girl deserve it (and so do you).

As for Outback restaurants, I've only ever heard them talked about here, so obviously they're an American franchise.

the place that serves the food that people like Maso and Toblerone eat every day. You guys eat fried onions and steak at every meal, right? Haha.


I wish... Do they serve kangaroo at the restaurant. If they don't, they should. It is very, very lean and much better than beef, in my opinion. And it is a heck of a lot cheaper than beef too. Bonus...

What's a Wallaby


A wallaby is a small, chubbier version of the kangaroo. I've not eaten wallaby yet, but wouldn't balk at trying it.

Anway, congratulations to the both of you. It sounds as though you had a wonderful day and evening.
on Dec 20, 2007

Congrats on 10 years.  It takes a lot of patience and effort to get that far along in a marriage.  Among friends of my wife and I, it's a feat not often accomplished (sadly).

We've been together much longer now, and about half of her friends lasted, while others broke up in the 5 - 7 year range.  My friends shared similar histories.

10 years is a nice number though, and normally means you've got a lot of the worst of your relationship times behind you.  Things should get easier, at least until you get your kids into college and get to start worrying over their futures

on Dec 21, 2007
Maso:
First of all, congratulations to you and Adrian. I hope the next ten years will mean you get to see more of your husband than you have in the last ten. Those boys and the beautiful little girl deserve it (and so do you).


Thanks! The next year is hopefully safe since he secured a hospital position. After that, we'll see!

I wish... Do they serve kangaroo at the restaurant. If they don't, they should. It is very, very lean and much better than beef, in my opinion. And it is a heck of a lot cheaper than beef too. Bonus..


Nope, no kangaroo! You make it sound so yummy, but I don't think I could eat a kangaroo steak!!

(Hahaha...Isabella just tore her diaper off and she is nakey! BRB!)

A wallaby is a small, chubbier version of the kangaroo. I've not eaten wallaby yet, but wouldn't balk at trying it.


Thanks! Sounds adorable! I would never eat or drink one of those!

terp:
Congrats on 10 years. It takes a lot of patience and effort to get that far along in a marriage. Among friends of my wife and I, it's a feat not often accomplished (sadly).

We've been together much longer now, and about half of her friends lasted, while others broke up in the 5 - 7 year range. My friends shared similar histories.


Thanks.

I'm not one who thinks that people who are miserable should stay married just for the sake of marriage, but I would agree that it's very sad that marriage is so fragile now.

10 years doesn't seal the deal, but it's a good start.

10 years is a nice number though, and normally means you've got a lot of the worst of your relationship times behind you. Things should get easier, at least until you get your kids into college and get to start worrying over their futures


Gosh I hope the worst is behind us! Haha.

I have read in various places that the kids' teen years are when parental marital satisfaction is at the lowest. I am not looking forward to the stress of that, but I am happy to have a partner to survive it with.
on Dec 21, 2007
Congrat's!

("Is it supposed to make crackling sounds?" "NOOOO! It's shooting sparks! Unplug it! Unplug it!")


Sounds like we shop for electronics at the same place....


Wallaby Darned drink (much later I realized it was a pun, d'oh!).


Ha! I wonder how long it would have taken me to get that -- if ever -- had you not mentioned it.

on Dec 21, 2007
I have read in various places that the kids' teen years are when parental marital satisfaction is at the lowest.


Well, we're edging into them here, I'll let you know how it goes...lol!
on Dec 21, 2007
And besides...you guys have pulled amazingly through some tough times! Somehow I'm sure you'll do fine.

Congrats!

And, dynamaso:

You'll have to see if customs will let you sneak in some kangaroo meat for your US tour...lol!

Seriously, though, I think there are some exotic meat places in the US where you can buy some. I'll have to give it a go!

When you make it to this neck of the woods, I'll try and find a place where we can get you some rattlesnake! And you HAVE to try brisket when you're in Texas. It's the law!
on Dec 21, 2007
Congrats Tex! Your article was hilarious. It made me laugh out loud.
on Dec 21, 2007
Gene: LOL. We replaced our non-functioning cordless phone yesterday. Later I discovered the problem. It was unplugged.

Sometimes I think I am too stupid to live, I swear.

Thanks, Gid! They serve snake at The Big Texan!

Loca: Thanks!!

LW: I would rather you come be my sister-wife!
on Dec 21, 2007
and grabbed them by the thorns. These roses had the sharpest thorns I've ever touched. My finger still hurts. But they are beautiful.


...and that's probably the most spot-on metaphor for marriage I've ever read. Congrats on 10 years!
on Dec 24, 2007
Thanks for sharing your evening with us! You are a blessed woman . . .
on Dec 25, 2007
I missed this earlier, but Happy Anniversary to you both and btw...you are both hot!