Published on April 15, 2007 By Texas Wahine In Blogging

It's 11:49 am and I'm having a hard time staying awake.

It's my own fault.  On the weekends, (or school breaks) I get into a bad cycle of staying up late and sleeping in.  That's my preferred way of doing things, but grown-up life is not compatible with teenage sleep habits.

Last night the boys and I watched School of Rock (NOT Orian's choice; he wanted Superman Returns) and had a Laundry Party.  We made up categories for prizes, and the boys had a great attitude about the whole thing.  They honestly didn't act like they realized I had duped them into doing housework.

They did a surprisingly good job folding clothes.  At first Xavier decided that his personal technique was balling things up.  As much as I enjoy the creativity behind that, balling something up is pretty much the opposite of folding it.  Orian was meticulous, spreading his item out on the floor and smoothing it out, and then carefully folding it up. 

It's embarrassing to admit, but we had a pile of laundry nearly 2 feet high to work through.  I *hate* laundry (and dishes, which are the 2 core elements of housewifery). 

I pitched in since I'm far more efficient but I slacked a little since I wanted the boys to get some practice (WHAT?  Really, that's why.)

Xavier hid a couple of belts inside the laundry mountain as bonuses.  The categories were "Most Laundry Folded", "Best Technique", "Best Stacking" and "Best Attitude".  There was also a guessing contest to see who could most closely guess how long it would take (41 minutes, LOL).  The boys got stickers for each thing.  I tried to spread the awards around.  One of the parenting books Adrian read suggested that parents not try to make everything fair all the time since life isn't fair, but I see no point in making one child detest Laundry Parties since I hope to hold more in the future.  Besides, my kids, of all people, know that life isn't fair.

I also made a nice no bake chocolate silk pie and it was freakin' yummy. 

Then after the laundry was all folded and the movie was over I stayed up googling blinkies.  It's a sickness but I can't stop.  Then I had to go around the house picking things up.  Not that it made anything clean, but it made things less dirty. 

When I finally got to bed it was around 1 am. 

This morning Izzy woke up kind of early.  It was light outside, but it still didn't feel like wake up time and I don't have a working clock in my bedroom (long story), so she had some milk, which apparently is like baby Ambien.  That bought me some more time.  Then she was awake again and something told me I was not quite through sleeping yet.  So I held her so she could see things and she talked and played while I rested (not exactly sleep, but not true wakefulness either...moms will understand).  She is a precious little ray of sunshine in the morning, and you just can't be grumpy with a smiling, flirting happy little baby.

When I finally got up and took her downstairs it was 8 something.  Which is an ok time to wake up, I guess. 

She and I had a morning nap and it was so convenient that I haven't put the laundry away,  because what happened to be within toe-grabbing range of me as I lay on the couch nursing her?  A soft fleece Spiderman blanket, that's what.  Sweeeet.

I have a lot to do today including intensive housework, a trip to Fun Factory, Baby Shower shopping, Cub Scout homework, regular homework, and other stuff I can't remember because I'm so sleepy I can barely stand it.  We'll see how much gets done.  Well, some things have to be done. 

I have really got to stop sabotaging myself on sleep.  Tonight I go to bed no later than 9.  I promise.

(And some pics of baby girl):


Comments
on Apr 15, 2007
and had a Laundry Party. We made up categories for prizes, and the boys had a great attitude about the whole thing. They honestly didn't act like they realized I had duped them into doing housework.


Haha! Some of the best times I've ever had were doing mundane things but in a fun way -like moving or doing laundry (see comments on MasonM's blog hehe). It's the old white washing the fence trick a la Tom Sawyer.

Cute Bay-boo too, BTW...   
on Apr 15, 2007



...ohh I just figured out a blinkie is an animated gif!


Boy Tex, you do pack a lot of living into a day. It never ceases to amaze me when I read your blogs. Your daughter's so cute! Hang in there!   


(psst...2 feet of laundry isn't that unusual!)
on Apr 15, 2007
Yeah, she's adorable.

I have problems with the stay-up-late-get-up-late bit, too. I'm worse when the kids are around, I think. When they were here for spring break, the little one would wake up just after seven... and then get in bed with me until I got up. heh.

Their Mom called to see if I had kept them up late that week or whether they were sick... that Monday they crashed out after school and wouldn't get up for dinner, they were so tired.

I definitely have to change that when I have them for the summer... they're going to get dropped off at daycare at some time before 0700.
on Apr 15, 2007
A laundry party is such a cool idea, and your boys are even cooler for taking part in it. You forgot to mention who won each award, though. I hope Orian won for best technique, even though when I was young I probably used Xavier's technique more.

Izzy is so adorable. Such a cute smile. She should win an award for never taking a bad picture.

Nice article, Tex
on Apr 15, 2007
You are so creative--a laundry party is brilliant. In fact, I think I'm rapidly approaching two feet of laundry so if the TW clan wants to make its way to DC, I'm sure I could find some cool prizes.

Those pictures of Izzy are priceless.

Please thank Adrian for the letter he sent--I received it yesterday. My roommate's cousin (who is the other recipient of our packages) is expected to be home on May 5th, and as a result we won't be sending him the girl scout cookies we bought--so Adrian is getting them all. I've finally managed to box them up and will hopefully get them in the mail tomorrow. I'm totally bummed that Adrian's time over there is being extended--though I'm sure not nearly as bummed as you and the boys. Ugh--times like these a magic wand to right the world would be very, very nice.
on Apr 15, 2007
I totally understand the late nights and difficulty with laundry, although I don't have the kids to help with a laundry party. All the cats would do is lay on papa's clothes while I'm folding.

Your daughter is gorgeous, by the way.
on Apr 15, 2007
Tex,

You come up with such novel ways to get the boys to help you. I can't help but laugh at the 'Laundry Party' idea. Fantastic...
on Apr 15, 2007
Well, that's the good thing about my oldest four being girls....

When they hit the teenage years, having them fold and put away laundry should not be an issue. All I need to do is remind them that if I'm putting them away, they can't complain about what I happen to find in their room!
on Apr 16, 2007

Izzy looks so happy Tex.  I can see why you can't be grumpy around that smile.

Hope you get some sleep.  (I do the exact same thing but never seem to catch up on the sleep part.)