Judas, Lucas, you are dense.

But it sure makes it fun to read.

Hmm....I think that being physically attracted to somebody is important.  That is, at least if you want to be in a healthy, sex filled marriage.  I mean, if you don't find your mate attractive (whatever attractive is to you) then are you going to be hot for your mate all the time?

People can claim all they want that looks don't matter, but I just don't believe it. 

And, Lucas, it is more important to be attracted to the personality of your mate, but don't discount physical attraction.  Saying that it doesn't mean anything to you is just kidding yourself.

This is INSULTING? That's BULLSHIT, and you KNOW IT, Lucas. You just decided to flame away at me because you thought I wouldn't fire back.

But if that's the way you want it, so be it. I can flame away with the best of them.

Hey, believe whatever you want to believe (obviously). I said what i said, and i stand by it. It doesn't matter to me.

I'll have to see what i can find on asexuality, because it could help explaining what i mean.

~Gid~

Yes, I found it insulting; it was not a flame, so just coold down a second, alright? I'm not going to get into a flame war with you. As I said, if it wasn't an insult, then i apologize for understanding it the wrong way it was meant. You know as much as i do that misunderstandings are possible.

To take what I said as an insult you would have to be incredibly stupid, Lucas. Either you are or you came looking for a fight, which is it?

As for misunderstandings being possible, occasionally, yes. As often as you do it? No, sorry, I don't buy it!

*shrugs* I've never considered myself too bright, so maybe. Hell I don't know.





As often as i do it? Dude, i've had how good of a reception here? No one likes me, and i can think of one person for sure, that insults me.

I'm not saying everyone is out to get me, but, given how much everyone likes me...i guess it colors comments made to me, and how i respond.

Again, I apologize for the misunderstanding.

Dude, you bring it on yourself.

Every. Single. Time.

When you first came back, I tried to stick up for you, hoping maybe there would be another liberal on this site that can look at things with an eye of realism, besides just shades, steven daedalus, and myself of course. (Ain't I great? )

But you just make it so easy to dislike you, when you make comment after comment of insipid, silly little remarks.

I've kind of held my tongue here, because this topic, as a fat chick, kind of gets my gander. You know?

Physically, and I suppose personality-wise, too, I'm certainly no prize. I'm morbidly obese, my skin is severely sun damaged, and I'm pretty hairy for a girl, thanks to my poly-cystic ovarian syndrome. And, I've got fat knees. And everything else for that matter.

I think that my husband thinks I'm beautiful. He says so, anyway. I have a hard time believing him, because I don't see it. I think that over the past year or so I've begun to focus on what's good about me on the inside though, and I've started just liking me better all around. I'm fat. Yeah...I'm moley. Tough titties, said the kitty.

I have a husband who loves me and I love him. And even if I didn't have a husband, I think I'd be okay with me now.

B...I think I'm the opposite of you. Really hot guys...well...I'll admire their physicalities from a distance, but I would never attempt a conversation with one, because I just assume that they're going to be an asshole. I haven't ever really met a hot guy that hasn't treated me like a moron because I'm not "hot" like he is. I'm much more comfortable with average to below-average looking men. And that's okay with me. They tend to have more inner-qualities anyway, I've found.

My husband isn't the hottest guy on earth. But I think he gets cuter every day because I find out more about him each day that I love about him...does that make sense? I didn't think he was cute when we met until I got to know him...

I'm blabbering now...

Class act, really, you are a class act.

You know nothing of my girlfriend. Nothing what-so-ever, and you stoop so low, as to insult her. (And yes, you implied it.) You've never met her, interacted with her, nothing.

My girlfriend is amazing, no - she is more than amazing. In fact, she is the most amazing woman i have ever met, or will ever meet. She's got many qualities that are admirable, and you know what...I love her. Bottom line, I love her, and i want to be with her for the rest of my life. That's my choice, my life. You can go take yourself and deal with your life, just back off, and get the hell off my back.

Understand?

Even if you don't, I don't give a flying rats behind.