Published on October 26, 2006 By Texas Wahine In Blogging

Anyone else notice the spelling errors on the "create a blog" page?  I guess it's easy to recognize the mistakes of others.  Not quite as easy to recognize our own.

It's getting closer to baby time.  I have about a week until I'm full term, but I don't expect (or particularly WANT) her to come for another 3 to 4 weeks. 

I had my first real OB appt yesterday (I've been seeing my PCP up until this point), and that was both nice and completely sucked.  The parking at the hospital is just plain stupid.  I had to park in a parking garage a fair distance from the hospital entrance, and of course it rained. 

I now have a "stork" parking pass so I will only have to compete with other pregnant women for parking. 

I get to see the same care provider for my next 2-3 appts, which is good news to me.  She's a nurse practitioner and I like her just fine.  I don't guess she'll deliver me.  I don't know if NPs can do deliveries.  I should probably ask.

I told the nurse not to tell me my weight, but I guess she thought I was joking, and she told me anyway.  I haven't gained too much, only 8 lbs, but the number on the scale is so darn high.  I just weigh myself at home on my brave days.  The rest of the time I try not to think about it. 

The male nurse I saw back at the clinic on base was much better.  He always told me how beautiful I looked, and he never told me my weight, he just said that I was doing great.  This new nurse is kind of disinterested and surly.

And skinny.

I worried my NP would bitch at me about my weight, and then I'd have to tell her to RTFC because my fatness predates my pregnancy, and my pregnancy weight gain has been just fine.  But she didn't say anything. 

I am very tired now, and forgetful.  Other than that, I'm doing great. 

I had a baby shower last weekend.  The first one I've ever had.  All the Med section wives but one came, and it was so nice to get to chat and be around them for a happy occasion.  They are so sweet, and I got so many wonderful gifts.  It amazes me that they would do this for me when most of them barely know me.  It was such a treat. 

I got a new (to me) vehicle last week.  Hawaii passed a new law that's going to require Orian to ride in a booster seat.  Between that and Isabella's car seat, I figured we probably needed more room.  Adrian suggested I look for something bigger, and I took that and ran with it.

I was proud of myself.  I researched the vehicles and figured out what we could afford that would fit our needs. I wrote down the info and the VIN numbers.  When I went into the dealership, I didn't let them show me what they wanted me to have...I looked at the specific vehicles I had researched.

I even pre-arranged my financing and auto insurance so I wasn't at the dealership's mercy and was able to easily finalize everything.

The sales manager tried to treat me like a dolt about negative equity, but owning my own set of breasts does not render me completely stupid.  I had already set up my financing and knew exactly how much I could offer, including the negative equity that would be rolling over.

He tried to get me to sign the dealership's "back up" financing, but I refused, which I'm sure he didn't appreciate.

Anyway, I got my vehicle for $7K under the listed price, I had researched the value of my trade-in and got what I wanted for that, my financing went through flawlessly, and my apr dropped from 9% (with the sedan) to 6.49%.  My insurance even went down a tad.

I now drive a 2006 Ford Explorer XLT with third row seating.  The boys love it.

Yesterday I took the boys to a Halloween Costume Contest and Haunted House at the library.  Orian was Superman with great big muscles.  He looked so cute.  Xavier designed his own costume.  He was Jack 'O Lantern from his Billy and Mandy video game.  I suck at making costumes, but we put all the pieces together and made it work. 

He won "Most Creative Costume".  A little girl won "cutest" and a kid in a bloody Scream mask won "scariest".  Xavier complained a bit because he had asked for a Scream costume and I told him no since I don't think kids should wear costumes from movies they're not mature enough to watch.  He grumbled because he said he knew the Scream kid would win.

I think "Most Creative" is a more special title than "scariest", but I'm just a mom, so what do I know?

The judges loved his costume, though, and really gushed about it.  It was nice for him to be in the proverbial spotlight and get some praise and attention.  Orian, the most emotionally secure child on the planet, wasn't the slightest bit jealous.  I am thankful for that.

Tonight at Cub Scouts the boys are both receiving some awards.  Photo op for sure.  They are also participating in the Raingutter Regatta.  We've put together and decorated model boats that they'll get to race tonight.  Hopefully the lacquer I sprayed on the boats will keep the marker and paint from bleeding.

Tomorrow night is Sunset in the Quad, and we're going to watch some Halloween-themed movies outdoors with some other families.  We did it last month and had a great time.  This time I'm bringing chairs, though.  Last time Orian decided to lay on my hip/side for most of the movie, and that was fairly painful.

Saturday is Make a Difference Day, and we'll be painting and scrubbing.  We have to choose between helping at school and helping with Scouts.  I think we'll go with Scouts since it starts at 9 am instead of 8.  Then Sunday is the CS trip to the Maritime Museum.  I really hate driving in Honolulu, and I'm looking forward to a single day where there is absolutely nothing I have to do.  I don't see that day on my calendar anytime soon.

I'm looking forward to Isabella's birth for many reasons...one of which is that I will HAVE to sit down and relax throughout the day so I can nurse her.  It's a built-in excuse to be lazy, and I love it.


Comments (Page 1)
2 Pages1 2 
on Oct 26, 2006

Here I was thinking that I'd got plenty of time left to make baby Bella's gifts, and as it turns out you're due next week!  Whilst I can get your gifts  (there will be something for each of the boys in there too) finished by early next week and mailed out by Wednesday, I don't know how the mail will be getting from here to Hawaii.  So, if it doesn't make it there in time for her birth, please forgive me! 

I'm glad that everything's going well, and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that Adrian will be home for the birth.  Oh, and I drive a Ford Explorer too, and I really like it.

on Oct 26, 2006
LW: I actually replied to your email in a timely manner. Are you proud of me? Hehe.

dharma: Nope, not due yet. She's safe to come a week from now (considered "full term"), but my due date is November 24th. Neither of my boys were early, so I don't expect her to be (plus, I don't want Adrian to miss anything!).

You're too sweet, making gifts for my little ones. Thank you so much, Karen. That means a lot. I know the boys will be psyched to be included! No worries about getting it here. There's no rush!

I'm glad to hear that you like the Explorer. Ever since I got mine I've been seeing tons on the road. Kinda like how I see pregnant women everywhere, I guess!

Are your kids doing costumes this year?
on Oct 26, 2006
shoot for November 21st. That's a great day to be born or at least it was for me. Oh, and yay Ford!   
on Oct 26, 2006
Ooh I had to stop to read before I ran out of here, (at work). I'm so glad things are going well for Isabella's arrival. I'm as excited as you are! Yeah!

Nice vehicle! My boss just got the new 2007 Explorer, it's hot! {yeah, if a vehicle can be hot!} haha It's a great buy and I'm proud of you for doing your homework and sticking to your guns. Hey, next time I do something legal-like I want you with me!!


The kids are looking forward to Holloween too. In fact I have to go pick them up to get costume and such. Some event on Sunday I'm thinking of taking them to it. Anyway, don't worry about your weight, you'll be fine. And I'm sorry that new nurse is so miserable. Just keep flashing your 100Watt smile and maybe she will lighten up!
on Oct 26, 2006
Congrats on the new vehicle Brandie! Did you ever imagine that being a grown up would be this wonderful and messy? I hope the baby arrives just on time. Enjoy the next few weeks.

P.S. Did you guys get any damage from the earthquake? I was thinking of you when I saw the news.
on Oct 26, 2006
not in the mood to comment....but kudos all the same.
on Oct 26, 2006
I was hoping to see some pictures of that Most Creative costume...

I'm v. impressed on the car buying--I'm not very good at sticking to my guns.
on Oct 27, 2006
Hey cool to hear everything is going well, albeit busy.

As for the car buying, just gotta say well done. Got yourself a good deal, by the sound of it.
on Oct 27, 2006
shovel:
shoot for November 21st. That's a great day to be born or at least it was for me. Oh, and yay Ford!


The 21st works for me! I'll try.

ForeverSerenity:
I'm as excited as you are! Yeah!


Thanks!

Nice vehicle! My boss just got the new 2007 Explorer, it's hot! {yeah, if a vehicle can be hot!} haha It's a great buy and I'm proud of you for doing your homework and sticking to your guns. Hey, next time I do something legal-like I want you with me!


I looked at an 07, and they are beautiful. I was suprised at how well the whole thing went down. I was a bit intimidated going into it, but I managed to keep my cool!

The kids are looking forward to Holloween too. In fact I have to go pick them up to get costume and such. Some event on Sunday I'm thinking of taking them to it.


Awesome. I really love Halloween. Adrian does too, and I hate that he's missing it, but I'm sending him tons of pics. What are your kids going to be?

Anyway, don't worry about your weight, you'll be fine. And I'm sorry that new nurse is so miserable. Just keep flashing your 100Watt smile and maybe she will lighten up!


Thanks. You're too sweet.

Tenille:
Congrats on the new vehicle Brandie! Did you ever imagine that being a grown up would be this wonderful and messy?


Haha. Being a grown up is HARD.

I hope the baby arrives just on time. Enjoy the next few weeks.


Thanks. As rough as my sleeping has been, I know it's not going to get any better, so I'm trying to enjoy and soak up the sleep and my soon-to-be-lost ability to go places with relative ease.

P.S. Did you guys get any damage from the earthquake? I was thinking of you when I saw the news.


Nope. We felt it here, and we did lose power, but so far as I know there wasn't ANY damage here on Oahu. It's amazing that there was no loss of life on the Big Island.

LH:
not in the mood to comment....but kudos all the same.


Thanks.

*hugs*

shades:
I was hoping to see some pictures of that Most Creative costume...


I almost posted pics, but I seem to post more photos than anything, and I thought maybe you guys were getting sick of it! Hehe.

Here's the winners:



(And here's the inspiration)



There are some things we can tweak before Halloween, but it's still pretty neat that he picked out something so different from what all the other kids were wearing.

I'm v. impressed on the car buying--I'm not very good at sticking to my guns.


Thanks! Hehe, I was trying to keep to that fine line between firm and bitchy. LOL.

Maso:
Hey cool to hear everything is going well, albeit busy.


Thanks.

As for the car buying, just gotta say well done. Got yourself a good deal, by the sound of it.


I just hope Adrian think so, too!
on Oct 28, 2006
but I'm just a mom, so what do I know?


Everything!
on Oct 29, 2006
Everything!


So true! Hehe. Unfortunately, no one believes me.
on Oct 29, 2006
I am very tired now, and forgetful. Other than that, I'm doing great.


Sending you some energy. Glad to hear you and littleone are doing well. Nice pic and costumes.
on Oct 29, 2006
I hate dealing with car lots. They hate when you do all the financing before. It is perfect. Good for you. I am impressed at your research. I always want to do it, but get tired of it fast. You are one smart cookie.



What is it that little Isabella in need of?



I wish you well on the birth and hopefully you have a floor full of great nurses. You deserve it!
on Oct 29, 2006
Kelly:
I hate dealing with car lots. They hate when you do all the financing before. It is perfect. Good for you. I am impressed at your research. I always want to do it, but get tired of it fast. You are one smart cookie.


Aw, thanks. It really is the most stressful, draining thing. I almost waited until Adrian was home, but I figured he wouldn't want to spend an ENTIRE DAY of his short leave at a car dealership.

What is it that little Isabella in need of?


Hugs and kisses? Hehe. I don't know, Kelly, she's pretty spoiled already!

I wish you well on the birth and hopefully you have a floor full of great nurses. You deserve it!


Thank you. When I was in with my kidney infection, they had me on the L&D floor, and everyone was GREAT. Of course, it could have been the Roxicet. But I'm pretty sure everyone was great.
on Nov 01, 2006
Wow, that was quite a week you had.

Yay to baby time getting closer!

I often wonder what those naturally skinny people think about the majority of women who struggle. Once I ordered some ice cream at the food court, returned to the table with my friends, then one of the guys said, "Do you really need that?" Stuff like that makes me want to die, or at least punch the person.

A baby shower you lucky girl! You're such a likeable person, I'm glad they showered you well!

And you're a smart car shopper; is there anything you can't do? (Probably not )

I'm looking forward to Isabella's birth for many reasons...one of which is that I will HAVE to sit down and relax throughout the day so I can nurse her. It's a built-in excuse to be lazy, and I love it.


I too am looking forward to the rest that breastfeeding can afford...but with my very needy toddler who is certain the world revolves around him, I don't think I'll be getting any rest at all.

So you're lucky your boys are a bit older and will welcome Isabella with open (and helpful!) arms. I've been trying to whip my boy into shape so that he can at least dress himself and stop peeing his pants 3X a day. But it looks like I'm going to have two babies on my hands.
2 Pages1 2